Never break 4 things in your life;Trust,Promise,Relation and Heart because when they break,they don't make a sound,but it hurts a lot....
It's been awhile and many things had happen in my life...there was so much to think about and do that I havent had the time to write any blog....But now,after a two weeks of staying in UTP...a certain thougt had came up and here I am sharing it....
Have you ever had your heart broken?The pain it gives you will remain as long as you can take it...I realise my heart was broken just recently when I noticed how jaded I am at certain events and how sensitive I am at another...
It's a lie when I tell you it doesnt hurt when it does...It's like a pain in the chest when the night gets dark and as the wind blow trough your face...The tears that come out unintentionally when you are left alone or when you want to be alone...it doesnt seem to stop when you want it to be....
It's true I've fallen in love,but I got up again,seeing that it was actually a feeling that doesnt seem to be...Maybe the heart breaks due to that I have been waiting for this feeling for so long,and knowing that it was actually a fake...what more I can say?
But then,on the bright side,I learn that I'm actually not as inconsiderate as some people told me...they tell me I'm not mature and all sorts,but then,who are they to judge?,at least I know now what to do...just keep on moving...
People will remember our mistakes better than our qualities...
Its sad to see that some people just can't forget our mistakes,even if we did say we were sorry...for me,if someone had the courage to say that they are sorry,they are someone that should be respected and deserve to be forgiven...I've met a few people who have these qualities..and I learn from them how to accept others mistakes and try hard enough to forget them....
It not easy to accept a person by their mistakes,I learn this the hard way...because whenever they broke one of the precious items above,theirs nothing you can do or say that can undo it...sometimes saying that your sorry is just not enough...it all depends on how deep the wound was cut...and how much the person responsible acknowledge it and try to make things better...even if the pain is gone,the scar is still there...and scars reminds us that the past is real...
Like people for their qualities,Love them for their difference...
It's easy to like someone when we have the same interest and quality,we get along well...but to love someone who have the qualities we hate...it's hard and special,we need tolerence,patience and even sacrifice...love is all about giving without expecting anything back...
We are all born different than another and no one is perfect,that's why we can't live alone...We need to accept the difference of others as how much they need to accept ours..because you'll never know who your hurting with just a word of speech...or and slight ignorance....accepting another needs time,so take your time but just hope its not too late...because sometimes when we meet someone,it's so we need to learn something from them....time will tell...
As hard as we want something to be,when it doesnt,either it's not the right time or it's not meant to be....
smile even when it hurts...
2 comments:
u're a good blogger do u know that? hehe
all i can say is that, instead of thinking of the things that make u sad, why dont u think happy thoughts? that way, u'll feel better. i dont know if it works for u, but it does for me, tho its hard sometimes to do that bcoz the sadness is just overwhelming it is all u can feel, you know?
kalao rase lonely, ko lepak la ngn kwn2, sure nye ko xkan rase lonely lg, or kalo mlm2 ko buat something ke instead of just duduk2 pk bende2 yg buat ko sedih. hehe
wahaha... look who's talking? i myself is depressed sampai kene mkn ubat lol
tu je la nana, xsangka lak ko boleh blog mcm ni, keep up eh. and cheer up! :)
Post a Comment